I’m working on Personal Progress with my daughter. It is really a nice experience.
Today, I’m working on Individual Worth Value Experience 1. Before I even began I was touched by the first sentence:You are a daughter of Heavenly Father, who knows you and loves you.”. It’s funny. When I read that, I want to tell my own daughter that it’s true, that she is loved so much. That I know she is a daughter of God. Yet, as I read it, myself, I feel the Spirit whisper to me to remember that I am a daughter of God, He knows me and loves me. Why is it so easy for me to remember how much my own daughters or others are known of and loved by God, yet it is easy for me to forget the same about myself?
But I know that I’m a daughter of God, and I know He loves me.
This value experience assigns the following scriptures: Psalms 8:4-6, Jeremiah 1:5, John 13:34, Doctrine and Covenants 18:10, Abraham 3:22-23, and Joseph Smith-History 1:1-20. After studying these scriptures, we are to “Write in your journal how these scriptures teach you that Heavenly Father knows you, loves you, and is mindful of you.”
Honestly, I get a good feeling when I’m reading these scriptures, but it is the final verse in the final scripture that really stood out to me:
“It seems as though the adversary was aware, at a very early period of my life, that I was destined to prove a disturber and an annoyer of his kingdom; else why should the powers of darkness combine against me? Why the opposition and persecution that arose against me, almost in my infancy?” – Joseph Smith History 1:20
What I realize in this scripture is that not only is Heavenly Father mindful of me, but that the Adversary is, too. Just as Heavenly Father pleads with us to know that we are His children, that we, his daughters are beloved and of infinite value; the adversary tries to get us to believe the opposite that our value and love are somehow conditional (usually on our physical traits). This simply is not true, but it doesn’t stop Satan from trying to get us to believe it!
I am reminded of something Elaine Dalton said in a recent conference talk:
“Again I renew the call for a return to virtue. Virtue is the strength and power of daughters of God. What would the world be like if virtue—a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards, including chastity8—were reinstated in our society as a most highly prized value? If immorality, pornography, and abuse decreased, would there be fewer broken marriages, broken lives, and broken hearts? Would media ennoble and enable rather than objectify and degrade God’s precious daughters? If all humanity really understood the importance of the statement “We are daughters of our Heavenly Father,” how would women be regarded and treated?” – Elaine Dalton
I love the line of questioning here, and I want to add a question of my own, How would my life change, how would I regard myself and treat myself, if I really understood that I was a daughter of Heavenly Father, and that He loves me?
Of course, at some level, I know this. But there are times I let myself forget. I get caught up in supposed expectations, I get caught up in chores, and most of all, I get caught up in perfectionism and comparing myself to others. And getting caught up in these things is so insidious because I forget my relationship with God, I forget the love He has for me, I forget that He wants me to be happy.
I know that Heavenly Father is mindful of me. I know that He loves me. I know that He wants me to cleave unto Him as he cleaves unto me (See Jacob 6:5). And I know that if I will accept this truth in my life, I will be able to feel the satisfaction and happiness from knowing that I am loved by an Eternal Father in Heaven.
I mentioned in the title of this blog post that there is a give-away…and there is!
Please head over to Tiger’s blog at Personal Progress Perspectives to enter the contest. She’s giving away a red (for Individual worth) tie-dye tee-shirt. While you may not be all that into tie-dye, the kids love it! So check it out, comment, and win! 🙂